الثلاثاء، 6 يناير 2009

DO I LOOK STUPID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!PLEASE TELL ME


This time i really want to know a second opinion so i can rest in peace , i was working in an association as an english instructor and i was really very happy of that because finally i found a job good for me from all ways but then something turned out to be wrong ,the man who was in charge of this place was giving me my money on time but after awhile he didnt keep on that habbit ,he began to give me the money late ,run from the place everytime i arrive why is that? i dont know i was deeply angry i told him i want my money or i will leave work ,no response !then i told him i am not coming again and my money should be with me at the end of the week ,what happened acctually made me mad he sent some of it and the rest he wont give it to me !as he says i left him in a critical time and i dont deserve it ,but i am not stupid to leave my hardwork hours because he said so i know how to take it and if i didnt i will not make him go away like this

the bottom line is do i look that stupid or silly that make people laugh at me and take my money ?do i really?i want your opinion

social intellegience


Of course all of you know how important to be smart in dealing with people ;that becauce everyone wants to be loved ,respected and well-known among people so when you miss this element you are such an amount of silliness walking on earth ! the reason i mention this topic because some time on one of Allah's days someone came to me and said that he liked me and wants to propose ,I didnt turn him down I said in myself whynot lets see what this man is like so i agreed to see him in the place i work and we talked alot and the conversation was so far good but then suddenly without any warnning he said "your front two teeth need to be straightened!",between you and me i didnt believe my ears did he really say so ! i asked him to say again and now i know that what i heared was right ,i really was annoyed because no one at all ever said that to me even with humour ! i told him it wasnt smart of you to say something like that specially if you dont know me well and it was our first meeting ,and if i told you that you will be upset too! and with this mistake he made i couldnot choose him to be my husband with also many other reasons but this one was beyond any other so i told him no! and bye bye with your lack of social intelligence i need some one smart enough to love me as i am with my personality not with the way my teeth look, and i say that popular proverb "the first impression is the last definition " so DO TAKE CARE OF YOUR FIRST MEETING WITH PEOPLE !I DEEPLY RECOMMEND IT